It’s a complete myth that finding yourself in style means being immodest. We’re here to inform you there are plenty of methods to dress modestly for each occasion—with elegance, dignity, grace, and comfort—inside and out. Just keep the following tips in mind when selecting your style, and allow the dress(es) to take it from there.

Midi and maxi lace prom dresses are generally beautifully covered-up options. Flowy, elegant, and feminine, they create an entrance without revealing.

Dots and stripes: these are general patterns that are understated but stylish, fresh, and modern—without being edgy in any way.

Avoid feeltimes sleeveless styles, plunging V-necks, and open backs. (Bonus: Long sleeves are forever elegant.)

Love your layers, aka a shrug on the short-sleeve dress, a wrap on the cap-sleeve midi.

Embrace evening separates —wide-leg trousers, a blousy top, a soft cover-up.

Dressing modestly never needs to mean boring. It’s about what you provide the look and shining internally. We love the choices above, but when you want to amp your outfit somewhat, look at a few bits of jewelry you might like to add. (Just don’t go crazy.)